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Maya H's avatar

I loved the linkage to last week's article when you talked about mindfulness and the 2 arrows! What really caught my eye was the relationship between responding to bids and divorce, I never thought that such small moments can impact the health of a relationship. I'm also very excited to read your paper on the potential linkage between performing RAK and cultivating self-compassion. Some ways I can bring more of these micro-moments into my life would be to become a more attentive person and express my appreciation to strangers as well as family and friends.

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Zina Al Kharraz's avatar

This is my favorite article so far. I completely agree with the point that in order to love others, you must first show love and compassion toward yourself. This point reminded me of Oprah Winfrey's famous quote, " Your life is a journey of learning to love yourself first and then extending that love to others in every encounter." I will certainly be paying more attention to others' words after reading Dr.John Gottman's list of bids as I felt shocked at how often I hear similar things but dismiss or don't think much of them.

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